This is my Life

This is something that really ticked me off recently.

A friend of my husband's was having a conversation about where we were going on the weekend and why we werent available,so we were going to my grannys 40 days, now knowing that my granny is not muslim he said to my husband' its advisable to stay away from any prayers and you guys can go for lunch as to not be disrepectable.

Firstly this guy does not know my family or my granny and what takes place at this 40 days lunch.What gives him the right to judge me or my family and comment how i live my life and where i go??If you dont know what happends in peoples live sand you are not there to witness aything mind your own fuken business.Some people will argue and say he has a right as a muslim to advise you  but really some people dont look at their own wives and their own families then want to add their two cents.

Growing up i was always strong and stubborn about who i was and what my beliefs were, I never worried about what people thought of what i did and where i went and what was the correct way of doing.They talked, they judged , they got over it!I lived my life my way not anybody else's.I grew up multi-racial , multi -cultural.I accepted people for who they were and what they did in their own was their business.At the end of the day i know who i am, where i want to be, i know what goes on between me and my Allah.I  love my life and wont change anything about me and my life.

For arguments sake!My grannys 40 days was done the muslim way with lunch but does he know this no!My granny is my other mother that i stayed with half my life from teh day i was born when my mum n dad had to go to work,does anybody care about that when they judge  you.I didnt judge this guy when he married a tamil girl, her family and mine is not the same.

doing it Old School

I did it old school after ages, i went out and partied fell flat and dont remember how i got where.Me and my two cousins like old times after ages,and then you remind yourself that was the last and im not young anymore it takes way more time now to recover.

But i had a blast and i loved it!!now they gone back to Jhb and maybe we will try it in another two years.
 I still got it lmao ;) Back to being a wife

Sunday nite @Vaca

Sam's birthday @ beach bums

Me and my Granny

I know she didnt want to leave us, thats how much my granny loved us.We loved her even more for taking care of us throughout our lives she was a constant that always lit up our lives and made us feel special.Always with a smile and loving words.

Miss u Moma

Cyclone Work' is indeed a bitch

On the topic of this weeks latest whoohaa, çyclone Irina i find it appropriate enough to describe how this year has started off,it was and is awful to say the least.I dont have time for anything except work.

I got a new job with more responsibilities and new people and some are old colleagues.my new office is the only good thing away from the hustle n bus'tle of the LAN's no students and staff in and out my office,i swear my previous office had an invisible rotating door.

Things have finally calmed down, so i get to wake up from been a mindless working Zombie, activities and plans are definetly need to come to order soon cause without my play i become a really mean bitch.

Amazing New Years in Dubai & AbuDhabi