As we grow up ,go through life experiences ,go through family problems,go through make ups and break ups and break ups.We sit back and assess our current relationships or our future prospects and decide what do we need.
We now have the knowledge ,the experience all gathered up in our head.We not young ,stupid ,naive and gullibe anymore ,we can say now this is what i want and im not settling for less,i can stand on my own two feet now,so u can't use or abuse or make me like or love you,im my own person.
Im talking relationship wise now,choosing who u wish to go out with,marry ,divorce or just spend qaulity best friend time with.Lots of us are going through this,is he/she what i need,can he or she give me what i want.
Everyone wants different things,some want unconditional love,some want to be taken care of,some want freedom,some need trust,some want all the good things in life,others want normality and happiness or plain down attraction.We each choose whats the most important thing to us.
Okay so u have these wants from the other person,but you too have to give something back -You have to sacrifice ,understand ,compromise you cant have everything you want your way always.Give and thou shall receive.
Making yourself happy is the most important thing,It sounds selfish,but u have to be,because everyone no matter what they do is to benefit themselves,you can argue that point but if u think about it the end result is selfinvolved and self absorbed.If u gave it a try and it didnt work out,fine stop trying pack your bags and move on.
Take the time to sit back and think before you throw away something you can never get back.This post is aimed at all my friends,in their own way each of them are going through assessing their relationships,the make and break part of it.
REALITY CHECK PEOPLE THE TIME IS NOW!!!!
We now have the knowledge ,the experience all gathered up in our head.We not young ,stupid ,naive and gullibe anymore ,we can say now this is what i want and im not settling for less,i can stand on my own two feet now,so u can't use or abuse or make me like or love you,im my own person.
Im talking relationship wise now,choosing who u wish to go out with,marry ,divorce or just spend qaulity best friend time with.Lots of us are going through this,is he/she what i need,can he or she give me what i want.
Everyone wants different things,some want unconditional love,some want to be taken care of,some want freedom,some need trust,some want all the good things in life,others want normality and happiness or plain down attraction.We each choose whats the most important thing to us.
Okay so u have these wants from the other person,but you too have to give something back -You have to sacrifice ,understand ,compromise you cant have everything you want your way always.Give and thou shall receive.
Making yourself happy is the most important thing,It sounds selfish,but u have to be,because everyone no matter what they do is to benefit themselves,you can argue that point but if u think about it the end result is selfinvolved and self absorbed.If u gave it a try and it didnt work out,fine stop trying pack your bags and move on.
Take the time to sit back and think before you throw away something you can never get back.This post is aimed at all my friends,in their own way each of them are going through assessing their relationships,the make and break part of it.
REALITY CHECK PEOPLE THE TIME IS NOW!!!!
7 comments:
Happiness is very important, but only making yourself happy and not affording happiness to the object of your affection is selfish. Making that person happy should make you happy. Its a give and a take situation. If you are unhappy than hit the road but for me my happiness is secured by making someone else happy.
I understand your point ,but if u are unhappy you can't stay and make another person happy.So being happy first is important.
Its hard to say whether it is selfish or not. I dont know. Greater love hath no man than a man that lays down his life for his friend. One opinion is that you must put yourself first, the other is to put others first. Its up to you. at the end of the day we all put ourselves first. I think we need to start putting others first -- and this does not mean let them tramp all over you.
umm you opinions are intersting and blah blah blah
but can you please pay attention to you grammer? a comma comes before a space.
Lol that anonymous comment is a rip. Please pay attention to your spelling.
See here hook a sista up, i need some grammer lessons and if you got extra contacts organise some english lessons,i know shyte about the english language,so before i start a comma space riot organise ekse.
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